Ricky Gil
Cas 283 Lab
10/24/2014
Do you trust
me? Do you trust the person next to you? How about yourself, do you trust
yourself? Trust is reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc.,
of a person or thing; confidence. No matter what you do or talk to in life,
trust is a huge part of the relationship. It doesn’t matter if it’s a friendship,
partnership, marriage, etc. Trust can either
break or make a relationship. Trust does
not coming easy either, according to USA Today, only one third of Americans can
be trusted. Only a small part of people
believe that no one should lie. It is quite crazy to think most people lie,
want to lie, or having no guilt in lying. Lying sometimes works out in great
ways, just look at politicians. High paying jobs and benefits and most of their
job is lying.
Even though
lying is common and sometimes necessary, it will still put some type of strain
on the relationship. Whether you may know or not, sometimes credibility is what
gets hurt the most. " Once a liar, always a liar". Once you go down
that slope, It is hard to stop. The trust bias is the idea that we are more
likely believe that the truth is the truth. Without it, we would always be
doubting what others say and would be spending much more time researching
things to ensure it is true.
Deception is
beguilement, deceit, bluff, mystification and subterfuge are acts to propagate
beliefs of things that are not true, or not the whole truth (as in half-truths
or omission). Deception can involve dissimulation, propaganda, and sleight of
hand, as well as distraction, camouflage, or concealment. There is also
self-deception, as in bad faith. Deception is miss leading and can cause
confusion and even humiliation. Sometime deceiving people is a lot worse than
lying to someone. There are also cues that can tell if someone is trying to lie
or deceive such as no eye contact, negative responses to everything, repetition
of answers, and even tone of voice.
Even though
its bad, I believe everyone will or does lie. No matter how small or
irrelevant, lying is lying and everyone does it somehow. Even if it is to
ourselves.